A female I know was mad at her male friend for not talking to her or spending time with her lately. She supposed he was avoiding her because he was embarrassed that they’d had a fling, and described his cowardly behavior by saying: “He’s being such a vagina! I mean, seriously, what a pussy. He should just talk to me.”
Being a woman is considered an insult.
Sexism comes from all directions.
Society has made sure of that.